CHOOSING "THE RIGHT" CAREER
How do you figure out which track to take when multiple career choices are calling to you?
One of the most difficult decisions modern-day humans make is ‘what to be when we grow up.’ Whether we’re 15 or 55, the struggle is real.
As a recent career changer, I’ve been there. Change is hard. Even when we’re excited, the unknown can feel overwhelming. The flood of emotions can make it difficult to be objective, and we may struggle with anxiety about making the wrong choice…or at least the less-right one. Be compassionate with yourself as you work through this, and try to remember that there isn’t a “right” choice; there is just the next chapter of your life.
It may be tempting to start by gathering information. While getting a lay of the land is vital for the process, too much information can be discouraging—a phenomenon social scientists call analysis paralysis. So, instead, I recommend taking a look inside. Start with your motivation.
Are you being inspired by an internal desire or motivated by an external obligation? Knowing what you really want requires an understanding of your core values. If you don’t know them, this exercise can help you figure them out. Career satisfaction hinges on your ability to live and work with authenticity, no matter what you do. Decisions based on FOMO or prestige are more difficult to sustain in the long run.
To avoid letting your anxiety make your decision for you, pick apart your internal dialogue. The stories we tell ourselves are powerful, so make sure they are true. Look for evidence that either contradicts or confirms your personal narrative. If you’re having a hard time coming up with examples, ask a trusted friend to help you outline your strengths and limitations. In any case, don’t let your inner critic stand in your way.
During this process, one of the most important things you can do is keep moving forward…even if it’s with tiny steps. I recently heard author and podcast host, Megan Devine, say, “Empathy and action are the antidote to overwhelm.” This is excellent advice! Taking action doesn’t mean you have it all figured out, but it does mean that you trust the process and are hopeful about the outcome. So get creative. Some days action may mean finding the perfect interview outfit, fine-tuning your resume, or processing your emotions with a friend. Whatever action looks like for you, get going. You’re gonna be great!
Good luck! I’m rooting for you.
Meredith